Dating a passive guy
A normal guy would say something along the lines of, “Babe, why are you late again?
For example, you’re late and your dude is peeved at that.
We’re avoid true conflict because we don’t confront things about ourselves or make ourselves responsible for changing the situation and .
These situations arise from seeking out and being with men that are inherently incapable of meeting your needs hence creating the self-fulfilling prophecy and letting you off the hook.
He will say and act like he ‘gets’ what you’re saying so that the discussion can end and promises things that he will not deliver on and insists that he is different to what you claim.Let’s talk about it,” can avoid a miserable night and get you that bottle of Riesling you wanted all along.Scram Honestly, if you’re not already deep into the relationship, I say back out.Marginalising you by treating you poorly whilst enjoying the fringe benefits of being with you but not finishing it with you because he you around so he can get those fringe benefits.Being non committal by struggling to commit to doing something in a few days never mind in a few months. Running rings around you in discussions with you so that you end up doubting yourself or even feeling guilty.
It can manifest itself as learned helplessness, procrastination, stubbornness, resentment, sullenness, or deliberate/repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible.